Thousands seek that special someone in Shanghai

Mon Nov 14, 2011 10:20am EST
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SHANGHAI (Reuters) - The odds favored the men as thousands gathered to look for love in Shanghai at the eastern Chinese city's largest-ever matchmaking party, paying for the privilege of searching for their other half.

Census data shows a rise in the percentage of older single women over the last decade, while the percentage of older single men has fallen, according to the China Daily -- which experts said might be due to increasingly choosy women unwilling to settle for men with inferior education and living standards.

Organizers said there were three women for every two men, with 6,000 tickets sold to single woman and 4,000 to men.

"These days, girls are much more self-sufficient and independent," said Zhou Juemin, president of the Shanghai Matchmaking Association, which organized the two-day event at the weekend.

"Also, there's a lot of work pressure in society nowadays, so many girls are busy with their jobs and perhaps tend to consider career advancement above marriage -- so some of them are no longer young."

Long queues of singles waited for their turn for five-minute chats with the opposite sex in the ultimate blind-date event.

"If your standard of living is lower than mine in every aspect, but if we can relate well to each other, I wouldn't mind -- because if we relate well, there would be good chemistry," said 27-year-old Zue Tianwei.

"Then the issues of social order would no longer be a problem. I guess it depends on how strong my feelings are."

Many men, for their part, said they were willing to shrug off traditional thinking that once made marrying a woman of higher educational and living standards unacceptable.   Continued...

<p>Participants interview each other during a blind date party in Shanghai November 12, 2011. REUTERS/Aly Song</p>