Modern Etiquette: Doors, Elevators, and Escalators
By Mary M. Mitchell
(Reuters) - Earlier today I nearly got flattened by someone getting on the elevator car I was trying to leave. Ouch.
Knocking heads with a total stranger is an awkward conversation starter at best. Thus, it is time to review the mindset and mechanics of doors, elevators, and escalators. Here goes:
Unless you were hired as a doorman, there’s no need to hold the door for everyone in sight. If you see someone coming along with arms filled with packages, files, or whatever, by all means open a door for him or her. And of course, if someone on crutches or in a wheelchair, help out.
Remember the basic rule – whoever needs the help, gets the help, regardless of gender. Most of us can open our own doors. However, if you are with a senior executive or honored guest, it’s best to let that person reach the door and go ahead of you.
Elevators magnify the pressures of limited space. If you’re among the first to enter on the ground floor and will be getting off at one of the lower floors, stand in the corner near the door and let others fill in the space behind you.
If you’re in the front and are getting off at a higher floor, step out at intervening stops, hold your hand on the door to prevent it from closing, and reboard after others have gotten off.
If you’re at the control panel, press the hold button to keep the doors open until everyone is aboard; then ask people to call out their floors so that you can press the floor buttons for them.
Once inside, don’t remove hats, coats, or gloves; you may bump others or cause them to think you will. Mind that you don’t whack others with your backpack, tote, or yoga bag. Continued...